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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm adopted and did a DNA test. I suspect I will be a surprise to someone eventually. [/quote]

Awesome answer lol![/quote]
I am a surprise to an enormous  family group who had no idea that their father had an affair (s?).  I am their half sibling- adopted at birth. Some of them did a DNA tests, and many of their children have.  Not one has asked who I am. A couple of  2nd cousins have inquired, but then, radio silence.

I am, of course, not expecting anything from them,  nor do I need anything. However, the DNA is out there, now in subsequent generations, so it is just naive to pretend it doesn't exist and that this didn't happen.  We all grew up within miles of each other...I went to college with some of my siblings. We could have actually dated, etc.

It's time to recognize, accept, and acknowledge. That's all. . .we don't need a Christmas gift, a relationship, or even a hug. Since the information is there- just deal with it. Secrets belong in the past and no one owns the right to keep it a secret. [/quote]

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