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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not really sure why I’m typing this. Maybe just feels good to type it out. My husband and I had a very rocky start to our marriage. We were in our early 20s, I had some serious trauma for an abusive childhood, it just wasn’t a good time in our lives. I had a one night stand, and ended up pregnant about a month later. I confessed what I had done, told him I wasn’t sure who the father was. My husband and I had plenty of sex during this time frame as well, so just as likely(if more more) that he could be his. I also told the guy I had a one night stand with, and he was completely uninterested in wanting to find out if he was the father. Husband said it didn’t matter, and he just wanted to focus on fixing our marriage, so we could raise this baby in a loving home. We decided to go to therapy to help me deal with my ptsd from my childhood and our marriage greatly improved.

Fast forward almost 8 years, we still have a wonderful marriage and we went on to have another child(no paternity doubts this time.) My son looks a lot like my husband and his sibling. My husband says there is no doubt that he is his and has no interest in doing a DNA test. I agree that it’s very likely that he is the father, based on looks and many similar personality traits. I think at this point there is no reason to completely blow up my sons life at the .1% chance that his father is actually some guy who doesn’t want anything to do with him and No idea how to even contact him. [/quote]

Don't. Just don't. Even having the test done could open a huge can of worms in your marriage/family.

And while all the other things that people have posted about could come to pass if your son is not biologically your husband's child, all of them might not and then you've still gone and taken an action that could throw a lot of chaos into your life.

Honestly, I think if it did turn out your son isn't your husband's biological child the explanation that the marriage went through a rough patch and Mom and Dad worked hard to get through it and never considered that child was not biologically related to his father is sufficient. Just because we have the technology doesn't mean you're required to avail yourself of it.[/quote]

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