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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gather all facts and financial paperwork before confronting. Also see lawyer. He will likely lie and deny. [/quote]

+1.

Sorry that you are going through this but be smart.

Honestly Sounds like DH just wants the younger model. From description sounds like AP is just a younger OP without the kids and with the career.[/quote]

It could be something as simple as "I was horny, she was available, men crave novelty."  Or it could be a reflection of a deeper issue.  We don't know, and OP will get a better understanding when she confronts.

Also, he could be a good man and husband who made a mistake, or a serial narcissist.  I always cringe when I see these posts.  I travel for work, I see cheating all the time, but most don't get caught and it let's the spouse back home live their own fairytail world while those like OP who discovered something have to deal with the fall out.

Usually the only difference between the long married couple who celebrate their 50th anniversary with the divorced couple is the ability of one person to keep a damn secret.[/quote]

Fairy Tale. 
And not everyone cheats. I know many elderly couples who were faithful their whole lives.
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I agree that not everyone cheats. But you don't KNOW that somebody was faithful his/her whole life. You really really don't.[/quote]

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