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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can’t imagine sending my DD the message that I distrust her so much I can’t give her the same privileges I gave her older brother. There’s really no way to justify that kind of sexism. [/quote] +1 This is awful, OP. Your DD should have the same privileges. What exactly are you afraid of? She will get kidnapped? Raped? Highly highly highly unlikely. Your son is more likely to have trouble. [/quote] +1 I’m appalled OP that you are so casual about your sexism here. It’s also disturbing how naive you are. While yes, the potential concerns for teen boys and girls are likely a bit different I think 14 year olds are EQUALLY as likely to get in trouble after dark. Your son is just as likely to be with boys who speed, damage property or verbally or physically assault girls while out in a group of teens as your daughter is likely to be verbally or physically assaulted or lured away from her group by an older boy. If you know your kids and their friends then the likelihood of any of the above is LOW but that’s bizarre to me that you’d punish your daughter for being a female. Spend more time talking to your son about appropriate behavior and policing the behavior of other boys in his group or kids from school and less time imagining how you’ll just lock your daughter up at home. [/quote]
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