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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow.... 
I cannot believe the responses you have received here OP.

People are acting like you are the one who dropped the ball on your marriage & are putting the blame on you unfairly.

Yes - you do acknowledge your treatment of your husband.
You may have made a few mistakes in the past, and by the looks of it you have recognized this.

But your husband committed a much larger offense IF he did in fact go outside the marriage.
There is no question that if he did seek sex outside of your union, then he is the one at fault here....not you.

How sure are you that he did in fact commit infidelity?
Are you 100%?

[b]Blaming the victim here (you) is very destructive.[/b]
Your husband needs to take responsibility for his poor judgment + you need to stop taking it all.

I wish you both the best.
You guys have a tough road ahead.[/quote]

By what she told us here, she is not the victim.   At least she did take some responsibility for the situation they are in.
He may not even want to try and save the marriage at this point.[/quote]

this is not the first time the OP has created this thread - there are other recent similar ones, so don't be so quick to line up on her side.  In no way am I suggesting to absolve the husband if he cheated, but OP has ISSUES and is giving the appearance of acknowledging her role in all of this (and it's messy and complicated). that said, you need to read the other threads to get a better picture of just how toxic of a home environment OP created.  then, this claim of taking responsibility is not so meaningful after all.[/quote]

what other threads?[/quote]

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