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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait a year to date? Would people give a man the same advice? I doubt it. Good luck and don’t stay lonely and celibate for a year, get out there! [/quote]

Lawyer will say wait a year to date because adultery is a crime in many states and cause for an at-fault divorce and a bitter ex can hire a PI to prove it and you are basically screwed if they want to go to war.[/quote]

Funny, my lawyer didn’t say that.[/quote]

My lawyer didn't say that either. DCUM's legal advice is awful! All that happens is that the spouse (me) that had the affair can't get spousal support. Other than that, we split everything 50/50 and went 50/50 on custody. He gives me #1,000 a month in child support. He wanted to keep all the savings, but the court really didn't care that I cheated, as long as I was not expecting alimony. He fought, I admitted to the affair, and we still ended up exactly where we were in our first meeting with the mediator. Could have saved 10K had he not fought so hard....

FWIW....I am a woman and I am the one that cheated, ended my marriage, and got remarried 2 years later with my AP.[/quote]

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