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[quote=Anonymous]Divorced for two years from a serial cheater who had no desire to reform, and it's hard but I can see some light at the end of the tunnel. Kids are not "unbelievably messed up," but they also aren't untouched by the whole situation. My therapist says that research shows it takes about two years for kids to get back on the same emotional footing as their peers with married parents. That assumes the adults handle themselves well. It is longer if the parents are feuding. One one hand, that's a big chunk of their childhood. On the other, sometimes the check is in the mail on the divorce and you just need to pull off the bandaid. You have a lot going for you in terms of career and income, which helps. Being younger also helps. I wish I'd left after the "first" affair (which was just the first I learned of). At any rate, good luck. [/quote]
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