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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Update: thank you every one.

I spent the afternoon yesterday WITH him at home. No phone. We played games and baked muffins and connected. He was perfectly behaved! A real sweetie.

I can’t do this all the time, but I try.

I suppose he needs connections and relationships, and acts out when he doesn’t get that?

Any advice on balancing this need, while also tending to my house and life?

Thanks.[/quote]

This thread really resonated with me. Ugh the yelling! I do not have all the answers but my 4yo is also better with a ton of love and undivided attention which is just not realistic for all the time. Here’s what works for us:

As soon as you get home and he’s fed, spend 15 minutes doing something with just him. We play crazy 8s, make Rice Krispie treats, do science experiments. 
Use a silly voice and say “that’s not going to work, goofy! If you want my attention just say ‘excuse me mommy’”
Play dates - mine just needs a lot of one on one time with people he connects with and it’s so much easier with a friend their age.

Thanks for starting this thread, I love hearing what’s working with other families.[/quote]

Thank you. I’m shocked at how positive this thread has been! Not one “he needs a good spanking”. :) Thank you![/quote]

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