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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm really glad you are self aware and in therapy, OP.  Of course being gorgeous won't ensure you a happy relationship or a happy life. It's easier to attract a first date or a swipe-right on a dating app when you're gorgeous, but that's about as far as it gets you.

I have a friend who is a decade older than you who was and is in your shoes. She hasn't had a long term relationship since our late 20s and can't figure out why. She is gorgeous (slim and fit), fun, stylish and successful in her career.[b] However, she is extremely picky,[/b] can be stand-offish to people she has deemed to be uninteresting or not worth her time, and can be very unkind and lash out when angry. She attracts a lot of men but those traits drive ALL her dates away after a few months. She refuses therapy because she feels there's nothing wrong with her and asking her to change is asking her to be "fake" or to "settle".  Don't be her. [/quote]

Every woman I know who is in her late 30s or early 40s and still single is extremely picky.  They demand a 9 when they are more like a 5.  I’ve heard them criticize guys for having roommates, being short, not a good enough job etc.  This coming from women who have their own flaws such as being slightly chubby, normal job (not high earning), studio apartment etc.  [/quote]

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