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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry OP. My DH threatened divorce starting at 4 months after our marriage and we have been married for almost 5 years. At first it was to shut down conversations/ conflict when I was mad. Eg “ well if you feel that way maybe we should get a divorce.” Or if I questioned him too much.  I think he felt guilty and was hiding stuff. It was disrespectful and I think emotionally manipulative, if not on borderline sadistic. I used to cry and beg him to stay and say I loved him. Then, I changed and said: “fine, you know where your suitcase is why don’t you pack up and leave.”  He stopped the empty threats. Marriage still not perfect but trying to work on it as we have young kids.  I usually feel like I am living in same house as someone in “parallel play” each doing own thing but functioning somehow. It is far from perfect. But there are moments of fun and happiness and love. There is also a dark resentment I feel that he has made these threats and I know he will again in future, and part of me hates him for it. I do talk with a therapist. Good luck OP.[/quote]

Do you find yourself preparing to follow through with separating for when he threatens it again? [/quote]

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