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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A year ago, I discovered my DH had been cheating on me since practically the moment we met in 2012. He did not have emotional affairs or have sex, but rather recieved oral sex from several people, from what I discovered and what he confessed over time. Some of the people were men. When I found out I told my MIL. I was pregnant with our second child. I did not discuss details, just told her he had cheated with both men and women on me. I was considering leaving him and was back and forth from my dad's house for a few days. I told my family and a few friends. DH doesnt know anyone knows. [b]I did take him back, as I am only 26 and probably just stupid. [/b]Anyway, I wanted MIL to know why [b]I was being such a bitch[/b] which is why I told her. I was pregnant and emotional. [b]DH also has a bad drinking habit and has been abusive. [/b]When I told MIL all this, she was all about "you need to keep it together for the kids, stop acting like teenagers." Since then, [b]shes been so cold to me[/b]. I hate going over to her house. She used to help watch the kids but hardly wants to see them now. [/quote]

I have high-lighted for your convenience all the passages you need to re-read.

There is no earthly reason why you should not leave this horrible person. 
There is no earthly reason why you should describe yourself as a bitch.
There is no earthly reason why you should care about what your MIL thinks of you.

There are plenty of couples who stick together after one of them has done terrible things. However in your situation, I don't see your husband stopping any one of them. You are young and can rebuild your life.

Get a divorce, pursue child support. Rebuild your life.

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