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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So your sister is an alcoholic and your take is that  she is  trashy and unpleasant to be around. No wonder she drinks. Way to not be able to assess a situation [/quote]
Oh please, it is not OP’s fault that her sister is an alcoholic. [/quote]
PP has a point.  Of course it’s not OP’s fault that the sister is alcoholic.  But the fact that the family judges the sister rather than recognizing the core of her problem is [b]a symptom of the family’s dysfunction[/b].[/quote]
No. The sister being an alcoholic is THE core of the family’s dysfunction. The sister’s behavior is her responsibility and only her responsibility. And she is the one not only ruining the experiences of others, she’s traumatizing all the children that are witness to her behavior.[/quote]

It’s absolutely not okay for children to be victims of the sister’s misbehavior.

And...surely the sister’s story has  roots her childhood.  Her experiences likely did not set her up well for adulthood.[/quote]

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