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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My 12 year old has noticeable protrusions, but has not asked for a bra. I don't understand the purpose of a training bra. If her breasts are big enough to need support, she needs a real bra. If she doesn't need the support, she doesn't need anything. [/quote] Uh, if you can see breast buds through her shirt, she needs another layer. This isn't going to be PC but the girls that age who need them (I only have boys) are the chubby ones.[/quote] Why do we need to tell girls that their bodies' changes are harmful and need to be hidden? [/quote] And why do we need to make comments about girls' bodies that are unrelated to OP's question, and downright rude. "The chubby ones"? Really, PP? You're talking about 8 year old girls and calling them names. I hope your boys are being taught better than that.[/quote] No one is calling anyone names. It's true that heavier girls are more likely to have breast buds at this age. Don't be so sensitive. -not pp[/quote] "The girls that are who need them are the chubby ones." So, you'd be totally fine with someone walking up to you and saying "You're chubby." I mean, it's not calling anyone names. Don't be so sensitive. PP didn't say heavier girls are more likely to have breast buds. S/he said the girls who need a training bra at 8 are chubby. Which is not true, a rude thing to say, and yes, name-calling.[/quote] Making an anonymous comment about a non-specific group of people is NOT the same as walking up to someone and insulting them. Are you for real?[/quote] DP. Are you for real? It demonstrates a toxic attitude that will find it's way out into the light one way or another. Calling out the PPs on this thread making these insensitive comments is the proper thing to do. It's time to stop this sh*t.[/quote]
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