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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP back.  Thank you.

I agree with all of these comments.  I am going to take an online anger management course that I found and see if it makes a difference.

To be clear, my kids were not there.  I had dropped them off at school and come back to find all the stuff in the trash.  My husband had no problem with the cops showing up.  I am more upset about it.

I think my husband is part of the problem.  For instance, after this happened, we agreed to come up with a list of ways to make communication better.  I spent the day doing research and printed out a list of ideas, such as taking an anger management course. Then, when we were home and spoke and agreed to talk about it in the living room, I went in and waited for him for 5 minutes, confused, and then I went to look for him again and found him in the kitchen doing some sort of home improvement project.  Again, I lost it, but again, his reaction was that I was making a big deal out of nothing.  He "just" got distracted and forgot, and what does it matter when he goes to the living room.  When he finally arrived, I took out my list and showed it to him, and he was fine with the ideas, but when I asked him for his, he had done nothing all day, but what does it matter, because he agrees with my ideas.  It is like being married to a wall.[/quote]

OP I think you might be a sociopath. You recently screamed at your husband so much that the police were called. He's probably avoiding you. I would avoid you. I would also not make a list of things to change because I would not be the one with the problem. YOU are the one with the problem. It is nice that you made a list. It is nice that he is supporting your efforts. You are the problem and I'm sure it will take a while for you to repair your relationship. [/quote]

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