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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has he gone through puberty yet?

If that is how it has always been and he hasn't yet gone through puberty then I don't think it is that weird. If the sister likes the affection and the kids are just close then physical affection isn't a bad thing. [/quote]

OP here.  He was weird like this a few years ago.  For example, he would get on top of her on the floor and lie there and kiss her.

I don't know how she feels about it anymore. She sometimes be resists but he's strong and always gets his way, while parents just let them work things out.  I think the girl just goes along. Feels like there are no boundaries respected at all. If she says no he doesn't stop and the parents just think kids will work it out themselves.

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You need to talk to the mom and be blunt, "When Joe grabs Mary and doesn't stop when she says no in makes me very uncomfortable. That is not appropriate. I know you want to be hands off, but Mary needs for you to step in." And if the behavior happens in front of you, stand up and say, "This is what I was talking about, Mary looks unhappy, she's asking Joe to stop." In my social circle, if a kid is continuing to bother after another kid says stop, it's fine to correct them even if it's not your kid.  If I saw a 13 year old strongarming a 10 year old, I would feel fine physically interventing and stopping it.[/quote]

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