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Reply to "If a couple doesn’t want more kids and consider surgical options, who should do it. Husband or wife?"
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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I agree it should be the husband. I grew up with a girl whose parents both underwent procedures (tubal + V) and the mother was angry and abusive her entire life because she did end up pregnant and kept the baby. She made sure her daughter knew how unwanted and what a drain she was. It was so sad and she began trying to commit suicide at 11. The dad was wonderful, though Another part of our own conversation about this (we aren't done) was that having seen the effects and risks of BC and the fact that his partner had done all of that for well over a decade that it was his turn. We also used condoms as well as bc when we were younger and put a lot of planning into when we were ready and when we'll be done. He offered and agreed to a V prior to marriage.[/quote]
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