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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would tell my son that when he is 18, he can be or do whatever he wants, and you will support it then, but at 11, not happening under my roof.[/quote]

So you would not allow a 16 or 17 year old who has said for years she is trans to essentially suppress and hide it from you?  What good will that do except to show her your love is conditional and not openly giving and accepting?  You are okay with that?[/quote]

I think people like this are either pretending to be supportive or ignorant of what being trans is like.

Before I knew DS was trans, I assumed I’d be supportive but not necessarily allow medical procedures until adulthood. I’m bi, but I was fairly ignorant of the trans community and trans people’s needs. It turns out, it’s virtually impossible to be supportive and not allow hormones and other medical interventions. I mean, you can say you love and support, but it’s the equivalent of thoughts and prayers after a shooting. The actual support is in actions, and that includes helping your child’s outside match their inside. Telling a boy he can present as female while forcing him to go through puberty and become more masculine, irreversibly masculine, is cruel beyond words. Life is already hard enough for teens, more so for trans teens with supportive families. It’s torturous for trans kids who feel alone and unsupported.

It would be like saying you support your child being a musician but not allowing them to have an instrument or music lessons, and in some cases limiting their exposure to music because you’re afraid it will corrupt them. [/quote]

What is even more cruel is to enable a course of action that makes him infertile for life.

And probably depressive, and more suicidal than otherwise.

But yeah, you'd be the coolest dad ever.[/quote]

DP.  Are you basing your "probably depressive, and more suicidal than otherwise" on studies you've read?  Or are you just pulling out of your a**?  Asking for a friend. [/quote]

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