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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think feminism has caused a few issues in society. It all seems a little topsy-turvy at the moment and I'm female saying this. There is the me-too movement going on but then we have unprecedented rates of females lying about being raped and the matters getting thrown out in court. A lot of females at the moment bringing up indecent assault from 40 years ago always in relation to celebrities who have money. It's always about money. Again the me-too movement where women don't want to be objectified by men but women today are wearing less clothes than ever before, getting naked on the internet and being sugar babies. So it's ok for them to objectify themselves. The fact that women want superannuation for time they have spent being a SAHM is ridiculous. You get that money because you are working, it's not a right. If you choose to be a SAHM then you forgo some benefits. Women want equality with men in the household but not when they divorce, they want men to pay them to support them, they don't want equality in life, they always want the men to pay. Honestly after seeing so many men screwed over after divorce with the ex-wife getting child support while living with her new partner in their brand new million dollar mansion I think the system is screwed. If the woman doesn't need extra cash she shouldn't be getting it. And the money women want to spend on nails, hair, botox, fake tans, make-up. I had a single friend who wouldn't move in with his long term girlfriend. He recognised he couldn't pay for her lifestyle. I am not sure I would be rushing to marry these days either. It all seems a little off out there, everyone wants to sleep around. Why don't they just sleep around and leave the rest.[/quote] People keep saying this about divorce (women getting all of the $ Etc) and I always wonder where this comes from. I know several couples who have divorced and it’s pretty much always a 50/50 split (both assets and custody of DCs). If alimony is rewarded it is usually quite limited. Child support yes. I actually know two women who were the higher earners and pay child support etc to ex-DHs so it isn’t gender biased that I have seen. I’ve seen some custody battles but they’ve all ended up pretty much 50/50. In the cases where dad doesn’t see the kids much it’s his own choice. [/quote]
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