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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it seems like the real purpose of your “question” is to [b]elicit responses to confirm you are right and your husband is wrong[/b]. You may wish to examine your own motives.

To answer your question, we have lots of fantasies that have gone unfulfilled. For example, both of us love the idea of group sex, but recognize that there are lots of potential problems bringing that about. [/quote]

Yes, and it is OK for OP to ask for confirmation that she is right. And she is right. He's badgering her and she is starting to doubt herself.
OP, it is totally OK to have limits, it is OK to have fantasies that don't get acted out. You've expressed your limits respectfully, and your DH needs to respect them.[/quote]

Actually, none of us know if she is right because we only have one side of the story. [/quote]

The side of the story we have is from a woman who is [b]being pressured by her husband [/b]to do sexual things she's not comfortable with. When she does not want to do those things,[b] he guilt trips her and gets angry. [/b]She is uncomfortable and upset.

I personally do not need another side of the story to make a judgment that it is fine for her to not want to have sex with strangers because her husband wants her to. What is wrong with you that you need more information than "she doesn't want to and he gets mad at her for not doing what he wants"?[/quote]

You have no idea whether the bonded is true, since it’s based solely on OPs perception.[/quote]

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