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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This board is usually tripping over themselves to rush out and declare "special needs! patience! tolerance!" over odd / problematic behavior like this boy's behavior. Why not here? Very curious. Speak to the coach but the vilifying of the 13 year old that's going on in here should not be occurring. [/quote] My husband was raped, repeatedly, by his older brother when he was the same age as the OP's child. It happens far more often than anyone wants to acknowledge. Their mother was completely oblivious (as she continues to be to this day), and my BIL was never confronted or accused of anything. If a 13 year old was doing to my 5 year old child what this kid is doing to OP's kid, I would absolutely say something. I agree with the PP's who suggested approaching the coach with the facts, and leaving out "creep" or "molesting", etc. And *obviously* don't do a playdate, but OP already knows that. [/quote]
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