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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you have an active sexual relationship with your husband prior to his cheating?[/quote]

I am the "why not me" poster.

We had sex 3 times a week. It's fell off a little, I think his girlfriend was getting it on Thursdays and I lost that night. So it went down to 2... but I suspect I got sloppy 2nds a few Thursdays. [/quote]

Ok thanks. That is very surprising!

Still awaiting OPs response.[/quote]

Not PP, but yes. I found out that my partner was a serial cheater, and there was no correlation between frequency of sex and his cheating. He cheated when things easy pre-kids and we were banging like bunnies. He cheated when I was pregnant and feeling sh*tty from morning sickness, and then later when I was super into it as a result of pregnancy hormones. He cheated when I was postpartum and physically wrecked, and kept cheating when I recovered and was GGG again. Absolutely no relationship between our sex life and his behavior. [/quote]

It's not surprising when you understand why people cheat. I think a lot of women make themselves feel better by assuming the victim wasn't being sexually active...and sure maybe sometimes this is the case. But you need to get real PP and know that putting out lots is no guarantee that you won't be the victim at some point.

My ex and I-Im the I feel nothing now PP- had sex 3 times a week at least...and with me the guy gets a BJ every single time.

Most of the time people cheat because they have a dark pit inside them and try to fill it with the ego boost of sexual attention from a new person. And I'm sure it feels exciting and forbidden so that makes it extra thrilling.[/quote]

Truth. I was cheated on too... we were having sex about 3 times a week, sometimes more, at the time.

Lots of cheating husbands tell the other woman that sex with their wives has stopped and that's why they're lonely and on the prowl but staying for the kids. There was a post here on DCUM some years back where the other woman was just stunned to find out that her AP's wife was pregnant because, shocker, the cheating husband had been telling her he and his wife hadn't had sex in half a decade and he'd been celibate until he met her. She was convinced he was this honorable guy who was faithful to her and just anxiously awaiting for his youngest to turn 18 to finally leave his frigid mean wife and marry her. Yeah right. [/quote]

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