Reply to Ex wants to move out of state-- what are the questions to ask and pitfalls to avoid?

Forum Index » Parenting -- Special Concerns

Reply to "Ex wants to move out of state-- what are the questions to ask and pitfalls to avoid?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's moving, how is this screwing you over.  Its fine for him to move.  Let him have holidays and summers and since he is moving, he pays for transportation and making arrangements.  [/quote]
Please go away. - new poster[/quote]

Another new poster and I agree with poster you are telling to go away.  It sounds to me that her ex had an excellent plan.  OP does not own her ex and it is easy to see why she has an ex![/quote]

:roll:  This is OP. You are so ridiculous I can't even be offended.

My ex has indeed shafted me and our kid in huge and small ways for years, which I'm not going to go into because I'm not actually here for drama. He already gets to be the "fun parent" while I take care of the actual parenting. When he moves, I'll be handling 100% of the school conferences, pickups from extracurriculars, etc., and will have no regular "kid free" nights. That's fine, but I don't want to lose most of my fun/relaxed time (summer and holidays) with ds.  I'm not trying to control Ex, I'm trying to protect me and my kid by getting advice. Thanks to everyone who actually provided tips and perspective![/quote]

My ex moved across the country and I did everything. Didn't bother me at all.  If I wanted kid free nights I found a babysitter. The truth is he's not invested in his child, his behavior has proven it.  I agree about the summers.  Allow the visit for a very limited time.

OP he's making it real easy for you and your child to move on.  As your child becomes older he won't want to visit as much because of friends and other activities. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics