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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't see why he shouldn't reach out to the other spouse just to confirm with her that the affair is over. This isn't revenge. OP, don't be so hasty in going to marriage therapy, take care of YOU first. Make sure you eat, drink, and get you time. Don't beg your wife to do anything. Don't smother her with love. It won't work. It is annoying. It will only drive your wife away. If your wife has had an affair for a couple of years she has some work to do on herself. Reminder, you are hurting (so is she). But don't try to fix everything at once. You can't. This is a long, slow process. [/quote] Thank you for that. I am in personal therapy and have been for awhile which has been helpful. It is difficult to take the long perspective when everything is so raw. It has been hard to catch my breath. Everyday life does not stop. Work, kids camps, laundry, groceries, tournaments...[/quote]
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