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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH’s ex gave us primary physical custody of her kids when they were 4 and 6. It was the most loving thing she has ever done for them. They are young adults now. She has rebuilt her life. They have a great relationship with their mother now. [/quote] That is encouraging. Thanks. That said, I would like a more equitable custody arrangement in the future.[/quote] If you trust him not to be an asshole later and to support you in visiting your kids while he has custody, then it may be the best decision for long term custody to give him a greater role now. The worst possible outcome is that you keep custody, are unable to take care of them, then he takes you to court to get custody while you are in bad shape. That is what puts your future with them in the most jeopardy.[/quote]
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