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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s easy to get out of control with criticism. You forgot to fill the dog’s water dish. The garbage is full. You left the back door unlocked. You drive too fast. I’m sure most people will try to excuse it like “but it’s a safety issue” or “but I did all the other chores” blah blah the bottom line is, it’s criticism. Just yesterday I realized my husband left our back door unlocked and not even pulled all the way shut, and we live in a busy area so yes it probably was a safety issue. But I also knew he spent all day working in the yard on his day off and was probably just tired and forgot. So I locked it and closed it and never said a word. It didn’t need to be said. So why nag. I choose my battles and criticisms carefully because it’s really easy to poison a relationship by making someone feel like they can’t do anything right. [/quote]

That depends on whether the other person is reliable. If your partner is generally reliable and they make a mistake once a in a while, then it's not a problem. But if your partner routinely makes mistakes that negatively affect your life, that's a problem.

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NP. Yes, a malfunctioning partner is a problem. But two wrongs don’t make a right in marriage. Knowing they have a limitation is all the more reason no All the more reason to not nag and bitch. Focus on getting help and having productive convo instead.[/quote]

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