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Reply to " Please help me figure out if I am either the biggest crutch or a total bitch to my adult kids "
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you are just showing love to your sons. Grown men by now. It’s what you did and it feels right, although not so much anymore as you’ve got a job outside the home and find the balance lopsided. Agree with PPs. They must pay rent and share in household duties. If your DH wasn’t involved in day to day operations no need to involve him as the heavy. Sit down with the kids. Explain your terms. Carry on. Grown men shouldn’t expect mommy to heat their meals on their clock. Even if you show your love through taking care of them, you may need to grow yourself to help them grow up. An aside: they’d likely be fine with this arrangement. Perhaps it’s you wanting to cater to them to show your love. In sum, they have to pay some rent at this age. Otherwise, you’re really creating a launch issue. It could be $100. Must be something. The world won’t be as accommodating as you. [/quote]
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