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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lots of questions.

1) how many people and who? From what walks of life?
2) how did you find out?
3) are you an asshole (be honest)?
4) can he do better (whatever that means to you)?
5) do you love him?
6) how do coworkers even know you well enough to call you an asshole?[/quote]

1) I honestly don’t know how many people because he doesn’t name names. [b]He’ll say things like my family, my friends, my coworkers when he starts the argument.[/b]
2) From him.
3) No.
4) He could do a better job of defending me.
5) Yes I do.
6) They don’t. I’ve met them one time at the company holiday party.[/quote]

Honestly, I wouldn't assume that people are actually saying this stuff.  I think he's using them as a way to tell you that he doesn't like how you behave.  Next time, ask him, point-blank, if he agrees with these people.  Does he think you act like a bitch?  Does he think you have a bad attitude?  Make him own it.  If he insists it's "other people," then I'd tell him that you'd prefer that he stand up for you and tell these people that he doesn't think you are awful, and if he can't bring himself to do that, then you'd rather just not hear about the comments anymore.  When he brings it up, just refuse to engage.  Frankly, I would break up my marriage over it, because I don't want to be married to someone who doesn't like or respect me.  [/quote]

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