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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I’m a woman and I’m the spouse that’s bad mouthed. My husband doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with people making such comments about me. He said I’m quiet so people look at that like I had an attitude or I come off like a bitch to them. He’s the complete opposite so that’s why people don’t understand why he’s with me. He even said it’s not something worth defending as it will ruin his relationship with others. I’m pissed off that he lets people say these things about me and he doesn’t defend me.[/quote] This doesn't line up with what you said in your OP. What makes them call you an asshole? Have you actively done anything to antagonize them? Do you control him or his schedule unnecessarily (spouses have a say but not vetoes, IMHO)? There seems to be something more than you are just quiet and therefore come off like a b-tch or with an attitude.[/quote]
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