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Reply to "If your family/friends/coworkers bad mouth your spouse "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH needs to stop relaying these comments to you. Many comments are innocuous. My mom one said, "DH is so absent-minded! That would drive me crazy!" and truth is, it does sometimes. I would never try to poison there otherwise good relationship by going and telling him about it....what's the point?[/quote] Relaying these comments is completely unacceptable and borderline abusive. And they may not be true, actually. I had an abusive partner who used to tell me that other people complained about me and didn't like me and it turned out that none of it was true. It was just another way to put me down and try to control me and he determined it was more powerful to claim that other people (in addition to him) felt that way.[/quote]
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