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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I told my depressed husband I was leaving. He didn’t believe me until I flew to a different city to look for apartments. He ended up killing himself when I got back. If you think that’s a chance, try to find him a safety net before it gets serious. [/quote] You could not have fixed him. He would not face it until you were gone. There are no "safety net' guarantees. You do the best you can, sure, but if they were going to kill themselves, they would have done it anyway. Nobody, and I mean nobody, owes it to another adult to be a hostage to them. That's true no matter what the details, and no matter if they are mentally ill. Bad things happen to people. That's awful. It does not mean that other people have to join in the badness if the person involved isn't trying to fix it. Sorry. That's life.[/quote]
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