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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand you leaving but walking away from your long term partner and leaving them with no support and destitute when the main reason for that is a chronic illness and disability seems unnecessarily cruel. Go ahead and leave but be a better person in how you go about it. No need to be nasty because you fell out of love.[/quote] Yes, and some people are just more comfortable not working. Be it the commute, the drudgery, the "expectations," or other factors, some people prefer staying out of the workforce.[/quote] Untreated ADHd absolutely leads to anxiety and depressions and then anger/verbal abuse. op likely made a ton of excuses for this guy before finally realizing she was being verbally and emotionally abused and needed to GTHO. I would leave two months before lease runs out, tell home it’s over, change your phone, use a different email, and call his parents the minute after you leave to tell him you broke up and to help him. They will get it. We went through this for my adhd Bil- the job firings, the women dumping him, the depression, the codependency w his parents. But no one, not even his brother/ my husband would demand he see a doctor or get treated. Such a shame. op your have carried him long enough, he is not relationship nor marital material. He needs medical help for his illness. [/quote]
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