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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Looking at other women = normal Obviously leering at them = red flag Making comments to you about other women's bodies = red flag But the biggest red flag of all: dismissing your feelings and refusing to change his behavior if you tell him it makes you uncomfortable. [/quote] Agree that leering is an issue. Commenting is a sign of comfort in my opinion. DH and I will make comments to each other about other women and men. A woman might walk by and he'll say, "did you catch that? Her boobs are going to fall out of that dress at some point." Or "how long do you think he spent on his hair? Do you ever see me in those pants?" I make similar comments to him. It's more we are pointing things out. I don't get offended that he notices big boobs or a certain outfit. I'm happy that he's comfortable enough with me to comment to me. It makes me feel like we are truly best friends.[/quote]
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