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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Either accept that you’re going to do it all yourself without his help/input, or divorce him.[/quote]

+1. How did you handle the practical stuff while dating?[/quote]
DP.. this is the thing.. when you are dating, your relationship is different. There is very little practical stuff you need to deal with together.  If they went on vacation together, chances are OP did all the planning, but during the dating stage, that was fine.  When you get married, you have to deal with the day in day out drudgery and practical stuff together; throw in the kids and that is magnified a thousand times.

What was once quirky and different about your S/O becomes annoying and/or immature once you get older and have kids.  I saw this happen to a coworker.  They were quite young when I met them.  No kids. The wife would laugh at her husband's quirkiness and immaturity.  Then kids came along. She tried to have the same attitude, but after a while, it got to be too much. So they are now divorced. Oh, and she was the primary bread winner.
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