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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband has little to no interest in being involved in every day planning which it seems based on the responses I may be the only person who views it as a great thing. I get to choose everything based on what fits me and my kids and not have to go back and forth with my husband on every little detail.

Now let me say I do consider what he likes when planning things out of sheer courtesy and respect towards him since I want everyone to be happy but in the end if he doesn't like it I tell him to suck it up buttercup because you had a chance to put your two cents into the pot of what were doing.

Everyone has strengths and things they want/like to do and if planning or making decisions for vacations/home buying isn't his then let it be and long as hes s good husband and pulls his marriage weight in other ways. Pick your battles and dont choose to make a fight out of e erything.[/quote]

I’m a pp and I agree with you completely. I’m very organized and detail oriented and I know my husbands like and dislikes. Our skills are incredibly complementary so the whole is much greater than the sum of the parts. We respect each other’s judgement and it is very rare that we disagree on someone’s decision. We built a house a few years ago and other then the $ and the basic design he left all of the decisions up to me. I’d ask his opinion on things like cabinetry and counter tops and most of the time he’d just say looks good. It makes life easy when it works this way. [/quote]

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