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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You seem to be rushing to the door in a time of real upheaval in your life with a recent surgery, possible return to FT work and young children. If his obligations are cutting short post Op recovery and generally stressing you, while in counseling consider getting a lot more paid help. It is worth at least trying. [/quote] This. At least try it for a while. He may feel he has more to give, and you may want less from him, if the demands on both of you are lessened.[/quote] +100 PTSD after major surgery is a real thing, and left untreated it can wreck your life. They say for however many hours you were put under anesthesia, you're not supposed to make any major life decisions for that number of months. I was put under for 18 hours, so for 18 months I didn't quit my job, sell or house or get a divorce, even though I wanted to badly. [/quote]
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