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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you have been together all these years then DH has accepted that you do less and it doesn't sound like he is judging you.  Just accept that he accepts you as you are and let go of feeling guilty about not doing enough.
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This.  Or even if he is annoyed by it, that’s his problem to deal with, not yours.  Stop being irritated with each other.  And definitely stop being irritated with him for being irritated at you.  That is a never ending cycle.

My husband can be similar to yours.  We have been married for twelve years.  I asked him the other day what he liked about me when we first met.  I thought he would say that it was that I was good looking and had sex with him pretty quickly.  But he told me that I was the first person he had ever known who seemed to genuinely care about him and was always nice to him.

Remember that you both have your strengths.  The kids would probably really struggle with someone who didn’t think sliding down the slide was amazing, kiss their boo-boos, and be willing to have a flexible schedule if they were having a bad day.  And as other posters have pointed out, it sounds like the whole family benefits from everything your husband brings to the table as well.  You are probably actually a great match and complement each other well.  [/quote]

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