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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister recently passed a few months ago. Her spouse is grieving terribly and I have been calling to see how he is doing.  He has mentioned on several occasions many kind deeds she did for his family, neighbors, friends. Very generous favors.  
She always had an edge for me. I am close to her children and do a lot for them. They have no idea how mean their Mom was to me. Her husband thinks we were close, not so. Here, I am consoling all of them and very sad what she did for others and not for me or my children. I am not taking money related things, jut everyday kindness. I would never say anything, but it really, really hurts me.  I am helping pay for her memorial service, listening to all of their sadness. I am there for all of them, but she was not very nice to me.  Please help me sort out my feelings. I love her children (all in 40’s) .  Just venting and trying to figure out how to move on from my hurt feelings.  Thank you for any insights and suggestions.[/quote]

OP, it is very hard to respond to your post without knowing what exactly your sister did to you that was "not very nice". You did not state any facts, just emotional subjective broad description. [/quote]

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