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[quote=Anonymous]It’s a lovely gesture but don’t attach any strings and don’t be surprised if she is untrusting or hostile. You, 14 years her elder, admit you were angry at her for a long time along with your mother and step father. There’s a good chance sis is angry at you too for ghosting her entire childhood. You said it took you years to make peace and get over your anger so don’t expect a 17 or 18 year old to show grace beyond her years. She needs time to process and mature too. Pay the tuition or pay back the student loan but no strings. I have to say I get the sense you are partially motivated to do this because you want the approval of your FIL and don’t want him to see you as broken in some way. Any truth to that?[/quote]
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