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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dh never got up with ds.  Ever.[/quote]

Same here. My DH never get up early for our 2 young kids. He sleeps in & wakes up past 10am every weekend, and then it takes him more than an hour for shower/brush teeth/get changed etc. He tells me that he is not a morning person, and he loves sleeping. He cannot handle 2 kids at same time.

Since the youngest one is 2 months old, I have been encouraging him to take care of his little girl. She is calm, sleeps all the time, really low maintenance. On weekend, after I feed & change the baby, I take the toddler boy outdoor for 2-4 hours. Most of the time, when I am back home, baby is still sleeping. I have not tried to take 2 kids out of the door by myself yet, afraid to screw up baby sleep pattern & afraid that the oldest acts out & runs away.[/quote]

I’m thinking he wasn’t a big help when it was just the one kid. Somehow you continued to have unprotected sex with this dreamboat and have a second child. You need to drop the timid act: You’re “encouraging” the father of your child to take care of his baby. You’re “afraid” to take the toddler and baby out. You just accept his “I’m not a morning person” bs. Guess what, Jack, YOUR KIDS ARE.

Where do you find these men, and why do you allow this crappy disengagement from being a parent to continue?  [/quote]

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