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[quote=Anonymous]It seems to me that the OP is getting defensive because a number of you are trying to parse all her (?) statements so you can go on the attack about her priorities. It is not clear to me why you feel the need to do this. OP says she's been told her son will need to move to travel if he wants to ultimately play in HS. I can easily believe this is the case, because it's likely what all the parents of older kids in her community have seen. It is certainly true in my kids' HS that at least 95% of the kids who make even the JV team have been in the travel system since they were 10 or so. If you take it as a given that your kid will need to move to travel to even have a hope of playing in HS, it makes sense to take a look at how he's progressing vis a vis his peers and to ask the question OP did here. If a kid is already training a lot and looks good in practice, I'd think most parents would wonder why that's not evident in game situations. At some point OP's family will likely need to consider whether it makes sense for the kid to be putting a ton of time into the sport if his talents lie elsewhere, but it can take some time to figure that out.[/quote]
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