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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you willing to see your kids half the time and every other Christmas or thanksgiving because your DH is a slob?

Are you willing to have less money, and to tell your kids they can’t do certain activities, or take certain trips, or have certain things because your DH is a slob?

Are you willing to limit yourself personally and professionally because your DH is a slob?

Are you willing to tell your kids their family broke up because daddy is a slob?

Just think really hard about what divorce actually looks like before making any decisions.[/quote]

I haven’t decided what to do yet, but but if I do, it will be because I think divorce is better, despite those trade-offs.  I would hate to only see my kids half time, but at least their home environment would be more functional and stable during that half time than it is 100% of the time now.  I don’t care about money, I can support myself and the kids in what I earn, and I think fewer toys and trips is worth the trade-off for better day-to-day life as kids and as adults.  The kids are young, but they’re not blind to who their father is, they get frustrated with him too.  If we divorced, I could provide them a more secure home base than they have right now, even they were only here half the time.[/quote]

Translation: I want what I want, and kids be damned.[/quote]

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