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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you suffering from a dead bedroom at home?
How long? [b]yes[/b]
What do you think the underlying cause is?[b]long term marriage, kids and busy lives,  lack of communication, resulting resentment[/b]

Curious to hear all perspectives M & F [b]M[/b]
Those who are desperate
Those who are the dead
Have you given up?
Those who have considered/acted upon/thinking about acting upon the situation....[/quote]

Given up no, don’t want to blow up my family. No sex in 18 months. Pornography is poor substitute. We are 50s, married 22 years, 3 kids.

Have definitely considered acting on it. Divorced HS friend very available for FWB situation.

[b]Men need sex to feel loved and validated.[/b] So I feel neither. [/quote]

That is actually not true, but if that is what you are feeling, then what you need is therapy to understand that there is more to you than your sex organ, and that sex isn't love.[/quote]

Nope. It is absolutely true. If she's not having sex with you, a man will not feel loved it validated. And he will eventually seek that elsewhere.[/quote]

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