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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] So, here's the truth. You need to be slim. It is extremely hard to look elegant if you're not. You can be exquisitely dressed at all times, have clothes that are tailor-made to flatter your figure and skin tone, smile, have great posture, glowing skin and hair, be a wonderful conversationalist, but people won't immediately think of you as "elegant". And that's OK. You don't need to be elegant to be happy or successful! [/quote] I simply disagree. On another note, I think all of this reveals objectification of women's specific body parts. As though the Slim tummy, limbs, are disconnected from the woman as a whole. Or that a thicker woman can be elegant if only her (boobs, waist, hair, skin: again, removed from her as a person) are acceptable. Acceptable defined by ??? Take a woman as a whole, and then perhaps, judge her on elegance. [/quote]
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