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[quote=Anonymous]I’m surprised at how judgmental people are about parenting choices.  My parents paid for everything pretty much through law school.  I don’t really remember what happened to any money I earned. I probably gave it to them if it was a lot — summer law jobs-and otherwise spent it in on whatever they would have bought me anyway.  Also true for my brother.  This worked because we made sensible choices all along, so our parents didn’t need to come up with different rules.  We then both managed our money well once we were earning on our own.  You parent the kid you have.  My current 16-year seems  to be in the same mold.  She doesn’t ask for much.  Asks if something is too expensive.  So she is in fact budgeting for herself, just in a different way than most posters are used to.  If she were a different kid, I’d parent her differently.  Now, you might say she has a greater chance of going off the rails budget wise than if I adopted a different approach, and that may be true, but that doesn’t mean our way of doing things is bad or outside the range of reasonableness.  There may be other aspects of her life where we are stricter than the norm.  It all balances out.[/quote]

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