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Reply to "If you have good marriage do you feel bad for other people?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t really think of it that way. Sometimes people are unlucky and have unexpected things happen with jobs, expenses, health that puts a strain on the relationship. Those things can happen to any of us and I can’t say how my relationship would hold up with similar things. Sometimes people have decision/choices they are making, and realize inaction and not speaking up is a choice, and they already know what they want to do and I am a sounding board. In those cases, they want social acceptance of the choice they plan to make. I try to walk a fine line because if someone’s mind is made up and it’s not what I would have chosen, at best I can try to get them to articulate why. If someone just wants to complain about their spouse but not actually try to either work things out or change anything about the situation, I’m not the one that people go to for that. [/quote]
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