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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]LOL. One of the first responses to a marriage issue on DCUM is to "seek counseling". A counselor comes on here, gives advice but apparently it's not what the harpies want to hear.  "YOU'RE OBVIOUSLY A WOMAN HATING MISOGYNIST TRYING TO TAKE WOMEN BACK TO 1955"

GTFOH[/quote]

I'm the marriage counselor and I am laughing to myself because I happen to be a lesbian.  I know that the biggest obstacle to therapy is that people have to be willing to actually CHANGE THEIR BEHAVIOR.  But most want to come see me and lecture their partner to change.  Doesn't work that way.  Both have to change, both have to examine their expectations and thought patterns.  Both have to be willing to see the other side and make the necessary adjustments.

Sadly, very few do.  Most just want me to convince the other person that they are "right", and they are!  Everyone is "right"!  But if your relationship isn't going well and you think your happiness is due to what the other person is or isn't doing then you will be a very unhappy person.  Your fate is in your hands, YOU MUST CHANGE.  If you don't I can absolutely promise you will be unfulfilled.  [/quote]

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