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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It really saddens me to see so many friends and family struggling in marriage. Since my marriage is doing way better then average, they tend to confide in me a lot. I try to help as much as I can but sometimes it is tough to hear all that hardships and the pain and the tears. I feel so bad for them. Not everyone can afford marriage counseling and not everyone wants to so I end up being one for many although I do not ask for it nor advertise. It is just because I listen and try to minimize the conflict by minimal advice if asked. It still feels like too much sometimes. I can not imagine how the actual marriage counselors can manage with so much painful information.

If your marriage is good do you end up your go-to person for your friends? I feel like people have a radar and once they sense that you are happy and have good marriage they think you are some sort of an expert. They do not  realize that every marriage is different and nobody as all the answers. Right?[/quote]

So you are self-assigning yourself as "the one with the good marriage?"  You sound slightly delusional and very self-aggrandizing.  [/quote]

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