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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a son--I just don't want to be an IL after reading all of these threads. OP- yes, it's mean and your inlaws will feel snubbed and excluded. [/quote] They won’t feel snubbed because they won’t know. “Did Sebastian have his karate ceremony this year?” “We kept the karate ceremony kind of low-key this year, Edna and Earl, so it was just Larla, the kids and myself. But no reason we can’t still plan a dinner with to to celebrate now. Does next Friday work?” Do you all really invite your whole family to every little event?[/quote] Flat out lying is stupid, especially in these days of social media. All it will take is for someone else at the dinner to tag someone in op's family in a picture, and the truth will be out there. Just have dinner with them alone on Wednesday night, op. This is a mountain out of a molehill. [/quote]
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