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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't sound very nice, OP. While it's very nice from your mom to help out, it's not mandatory to do so when you're a member of the family. Your MIL is obese and can't keep up but maybe she can bring something else that will make your kid(s) happy. Look at it this way and you'll be happier. And when she criticizes, tell her you can't tolerate it. These people need to hear it out loud because quite often no one will dare tell them it's wrong. Just say it and get it off your chest.[/quote] Important to bear in mind here that we only have OP's version of this story. Obese grandma could be someone who weighs 400 pounds and struggles with mobility, or she could be . ... (gasp) someone who wears a size 12. The fact that OP doesn't like fat people who watch TV and considers grandma to be such could be purely a reflection of some issues that OP is dealing with. [/quote]
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