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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t. You will scratch your itch but later on you may end up dealing with a lot of troubles (breaking your spouse trust, possible divorce, messing up your colleague family, your kids in therapy after separation, lawyers bills etc). Not worth the risk.[/quote]

OP here. I am aware of the consequences of my actions should it be found out. However, that wasn't the intent of my post. I am interested in pursuing this, just not sure how as I've never had an affair before. I know it's wrong on many levels to sleep with a man thats not my husband. That doesnt change the fact I still want to, and would given the chance. I just dont know how to approach him, and I may very well get shut down if he is like the rest of you shaking your finger at me[/quote]

Then take actual responsibility for those feelings, be an adult, and end your marriage before pursuing another relationship. What you’re considering is unbelievably selfish. It doesn’t matter if your husband maybe already has done it. [/quote]

So many people around here who know how to run other people's lives. What are you doing on a message board? You should be selling your advice for a ton of money if it's so good.

(Or you can just stop judging and mind your own business.)[/quote]

If you are posting on a public forum, then you take the chance of getting opinions that differ to yours. If you want that, then start your own and limit it to like minded people [/quote]

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